This is a great question and one that I’ve been asked many times. This led me to investigate it and give it some serious thought.
From the outside looking in you would think that a personal Matchmaking Agency would be the last service that a successful man or woman would require. With your work life and financial circumstances in complete control, and most aspects of your personal life under control, it genuinely does seem that this would be a service that would not be required. The reality is that this is a service that arguably is required even more for busy successful individuals!
Firstly, to achieve the level of success you have achieved takes commitment, dedication and focus. It also takes a determination that overrides anything else, with an average working day being between anywhere from 12 hours to 16 hours depending what’s needed. People sometimes say it’s all about being in the right place at the right time and luck that are the keys to success… it’s funny though, the harder people work the luckier they seem to be – not luck at all, just hard work! This means the free time you have is incredibly precious to you and in turn the free time you have to dedicate to meeting a new partner is incredibly limited.
Going down to the local pub after a long day at work would be a place where in the past you could unwind and be able to meet somebody. Sadly, since the pandemic and the shift to working from home, this way of meeting someone is somewhat harder. The thought of getting ready and going out to try to find that special person after a long day at work can often turn your attention to online dating – after all it’s at the tip of your fingers.
After grabbing a quick bite to eat and settling down with a glass of your favourite drink, you commit to looking seriously through whichever platform you have chosen to try to find someone that in the main ‘fits you’. The trouble is, the same profiles seem to keep popping up and the mindless scrolling can quickly make you close the app down, flick the TV on and decide to look again tomorrow. If you do find someone of interest, in the back of your mind you question the legitimacy of the person – after all, you have worked hard to achieve all you have, the last thing you want is to put yourself in a position where someone could take advantage of you, so even if you get to the stage of arranging to meet up there is doubt in your mind that doesn’t allow you to open up fully – not a great way to approach a first date.
The alternative to chancing your luck in the pub, or through online platforms, is a professional Matchmaking service. This once deemed old fashioned way of meeting is rapidly replacing increasingly unpopular online dating. I think over the past few years people have seen through online dating and the dangers of catfishing. A fact that surprised me was more men fall victim to online scammers. The statistics are 54% of men over 46% of women end up being relieved of their hard-earned cash by these professional criminals. People are far more aware of what a Matchmaking service is as most tv shows such as Married At First Site, First Dates, Love Island, Celeb Go Dating to name but a few, all use this tried and tested technique because it does work.
The beauty of using a Professional Matchmaking Service is that they do all the hard work for you. Once you’ve decided to invest in joining a Matchmaking service the first thing that a truly professional Matchmaking Service will do it to conduct an in-depth check on you – residency, bankruptcy, criminal activity and fraud - this should be incredibly reassuring to you as all members will have been through this process, making it a safe environment away from the perils that people face with online dating sites - which shockingly do no checks at all. After this has been completed, your personal Matchmaker will give you a personal interview to find out your likes, dislikes and the sort of person you are looking for. It is important to be as open minded as you possibly can at this stage, otherwise you could restrict the possibilities available to you – after all, having different interests is often so important to a successful relationship. The next step is for your personal Matchmaker to write your profile for you to approve, once approved they will get to work looking for that special person in a safe environment while you sit back, relax and let you Matchmaker do the hard work.
Once we have discussed and understand your specific requirements, we will be able to recommend a suitable, tailor-made membership package with bespoke fees for you.
If you are seeking an elite matchmaking consultancy service where the exeptional is distinguished from merely the very good, please get in touch for a confidential consultation.
